My
position about weddings
So, speaking about
weddings, I would like to mention first that I don’t understand people, who are
getting married at the age of 17-20, it’s hideous. Cause they don’t realize that they’ll break their
lives by divesting themselves of the greatest years. Cause at that age they all
are still children and children can only play representing a family but it’s
wrong to transform such a game into a reality, cause they are to young to do
it. The same I can tell about weddings the reasons of which is pregnancy, such
wedlocks exist for a short time as usual.
As for me I decided
that it would be better to get married when I’ll be 25-27 years old. And only
misunderstanding, cruel and unfair control can change my decision, so I can
make up my mind and displace that age limit a little below.
I think that
nowadays marriage is only the way to bring up lawful children. And it would be
better and admissible for me to live in civil marriage with a beloved person.
And only when we’ll be sure in each other, in our joint future and our
financial stability it would be possible to speak about our marriage and
children.
I’m an atheist, so
I want to have a humanist wedding and after it a ceremony in a register office.
As any other girls I want my wedding to be as unusual as possible, I want us to
recite our own vows, and to invite a crowd of friends and relatives.
Getting older you
look for real, true love. You simply fall in love and want to make the other
person happy too. And so you marry and take on the responsibilities of married
life. In this new life you learn to take care of your partner, and you expect
to have a family and bring up your children in the way you know to be right.
As parents, you
wish to provide them with everything you know a child needs, namely love,
protection, safety and understanding. By
rearing children and being a good partner you yourself feel needed and loved.
The self-realization in marriage and parenthood is the key to happiness,
although it is still associated with effort, sacrifice and hard work.
If the decision to get married does not result from an
unpleasant domestic situation you have a great chance to succeed in marriage.
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