Romeo And Juliet The Betrayal Of The

Adults To Juliet Essay, Research Paper

Romeo and Juliet: The Betrayal of the Adults to Juliet

In Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet the adults betray Juliet because they

are unable to understand her. Juliet’s parents, Capulet and Lady Capulet, fail

to understands Juliet’s decision not to marry Paris. The Nurse fails Juliet by

not supporting Juliet’s decision to remain married to Romeo. The final adult to

fail Juliet is Friar Lawrence who does not comprehend Juliet and Romeo’s love

for each other. These misunderstandings cause the adults to betray Juliet.

The first to betray Juliet is her parents, Capulet and Lady Capulet.

Capulet decides to marry Juliet to Paris. When Juliet refuses to do so Capulet

threatens to disown her. “…you shall not house with me.” (III, v, 200) he

states. Capulet will only forgive her if she will consent to her father’s

decision “…I’ll give you to my friend./An you be not hang, beg, starve, die in

the streets.” (III, v, 203-204) His wife, upon hearing Juliet’s decision against

marrying to Paris, refuses to give Juliet counsel. “Talk not to me, for I’ll not

speak a word./Do as thou wilt for I have done with thee.” (III, v, 214-215) Lady

Capulet is angered by Juliet’s choice and wishes “I would the fool be married to

her grave.” (III, v, 145) Juliet’s parents betray Juliet by not supporting

Juliet’s pleas for the marriage to be delayed a year. Capulet and Lady Capulet

do not know Juliet is married to Romeo, a fact that may have, yet not likely

altered these circumstances. Her parent’s betrayal causes Juliet to look for

comfort from the Nurse.

The Nurse also fails to support Juliet’s choice against marrying Paris.

Instead of supporting Juliet the Nurse instead believes “I think it is best you

marry the county…For it excels your first (marriage).” (III, v, 230, 236)

Juliet feels betrayed by this reply as the Nurse “… dispraise my lord (Romeo)

with that same tounge/Which she hath praised him beyond compare/So many thousand

times?” (III, v, 249-252) The Nurse’s betrayal causes Juliet to go to the Friar

with the intent to commit suicide should he be unable to help Juliet – “I’ll to

the Friar to know his remedy./If all else fails myself have the power to die.”

(III, v, 254-255)

The Friar is the final adult to betray Juliet. He fails to understand

Romeo and Juliet’s love for each other. Part of the misunderstanding is brought

on by Romeo being quick to forget Rosaline. The Friar believes that Juliet and

Romeo’s love is temporary and advises Romeo “Wisely and slow. They stumble that

run fast.” (II, iv, 101) The Friar is mistaken. The Friar, when he was down in

the tomb with Juliet, who is distressed about Romeo’s death, could have saved

her life. Instead of staying with Juliet and comforting her when she does not

wish to leave “Go, get thee hence, for I will not away.” (V, iii, 165) Friar

Lawrence betrays her by rushing out of the tomb “Come, go, good Juliet. I dare

no longer stay” (V, iii, 164) when he hears the watch coming. Part of this

reaction comes from the Friar misunderstanding Juliet and Romeo’s love. The

other part comes from the Friar’s self concern. As a result from Friar

Lawrence’s betrayal Juliet commits suicide.

The adults betrayed Juliet because they did not see things in the same

view as she did. Adults may not always understand children as they see things in

different views. Adults have more experience than children. Experience alters

their choices in how to act. Shakespeare’s creation of the conflict in this play,

between Juliet and the adults, demonstrates his understanding the young and olds

various views on topics and how this misunderstanding may result in betrayal.